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How does one succeed in life?

Last Updated: 18.06.2025 12:41

How does one succeed in life?

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).

Hangs out with loser friends.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Why am I sweating so much at night even though my room is really cold?

Do not set goals—set systems.

Losing 20kg is a goal.

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

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Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

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If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Overthinking is killing me day-by-day. What should I do?

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

Saving $10,000 is a goal.

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Does not procrastinate.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Why did Obito, a supposed "bad person," do good things for Kakashi?

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

Making more friends is a goal.

Procrastinates a lot.

Is there anything you did that you regret? If so, what is it, and why?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Would you let your partner cheat on you every now and again?

That's it for today.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

Do girls ever miss their first love?

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Ask yourself:

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

Are Turks ashamed of their Islamic heritage?

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

What shouldn't you Google?

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

What I need from you?

What is the best way to end a relationship with someone who has future plans with you?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

My landlord just sold the house I’m renting from her. She included all fixtures, that I bought and installed. Does she have this right?

Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.